Wingnut_3: why do we ignore the ones who admire us and admire the ones who ignore us?

No matter who you are, what people want the most is to be admired. That’s one of the highest feelings there is. So it’s safe to say we’re constantly looking to feed that admirable fix. It won’t always happen in the presence of those who already admire us. We’re too used them. We see it so much we don’t see it anymore. We want to earn the admiration of strangers and the envy of enemies past. It is through them that we would experience a higher sense of accomplishment (at least, on a superficial level.)

If you learn to admire everyone for always doing their best, even in their failures and in times of their most confused moments, you will quickly find the whole world admiring you for your compassion. There will be no need to pick and choose whom you ignore and whom you chase after. You will awaken to all the rare beauty and skill that everyone has to offer.( quote from Jason Mraz's blog)


"Tough times never last, but tough people do.

Label: days, important, people

I wonder why people in Shanghai, love to go mad or like to be angry without reason. Well, I must say, easily gone mad!
Every time I find those moments, I can't understand how it can be like that. I mean, come on guys, you should have at least one reason to be angry. I don't against "angry", but i don't like or i don't agree if you guys are just angry without any reason. Are you insane or what???!

Here it is, yesterday i took a bus and unluckily the bus was damn full of people. I stood near the front door with one girl next to me. The girl and me were so closed to the front door, so maybe the driver saw this thing happened and shouted something in Shanghainese! Suddenly, he opened the front door and the girl beside me ran outside and entered the bus from back door.It happened so fast until i can't realize what happened there. Then, the bus driver was staring at me sarcasticly and said something which i can understand that i was so stupid bla bla bla in Chinese! I just told him that i did not understand what he said in English! I did my revenge stupidly -_-. Can't just the uncle tell me to move with better tone? well, I don't expect he would be nice towards me considering he might be so tired working from early morning to late hour. But, this uncle's tone made my voltage going high! Not mention about his sarcastic staring eyes......

Today evening, i took a bus going back home from dinner. Once again this bus was full!Full of people who are impatiently enter the bus and push you away. So, the bus has to pass through a road which is under construction right now, and this road just can be passed by a vehicle at a time. There were workers there pushing carts and they were working to fix the road. This bus driver was gone mad,once again, because the bus had to wait for some minutes to pass through the road. Well, what i can see is.....can the driver consider about these workers?? they are working there, and they have to push the cart to send the sand, stones, or whatever it is, and the cart is heavy so it takes time to push it!!!!!Please uncle....please be patient, otherwise your life won't be as beautiful as you want....or you can't see this life is beautiful because you are gone mad easily and this madness makes you blind!
well well well....here I present a song that i love for this tough world.



Life is Beautiful

Life is beautiful
We live until we die

When you run into my arms
We steal a perfect moment
Let the monsters see you smile
Let them see you smiling

Do I hold you too tightly?
When will the hurt kick in?

Life is beautiful
But it's complicated
We barely make it
We don't need
To understand
There are miracles
Miracles

Yeah, life is beautiful
Our hearts
They beat and break

When you run away from harm
Will you run back into my arms?
Like you did when you were young
Will you come back to me?

And I will hold you tightly
When the hurting kicks in

Life is beautiful
But it's complicated
We barely make it
We don't need
To understand
There are miracles
Miracles

Stand
Where you are
We let all these moments
Pass us by

It's amazing where I'm standing
There's a lot that we can give
This is ours just for the moment
There's a lot that we can can give

It's amazing where I'm standing
There's a lot that we can give
This is ours just for the moment
There's a lot that we can give


ps: sorry that i can't give u the song, u can download it anyways

Have a beautiful day, everyone!

Label: days, important, people

i want to buy a bunch of Hydrangea for you!
yeah..for you!
YOU! who give the simply understanding and does not give a damn bout what I talk about.
YOU! who says it's ok, i don't even care!
YOU! who says "yeah...i can understand, it's normal."
and you...who is deserved to be understood.

Label: frieds, important, life

i really miss you, Chris!
i know that we haven't talk fot long time.
but still, you are my home!
love u darl!
cya soon...^o^

Label: friends, important

These days, I've been realized that LIFE is about choices.
Cliche...yeah, I know.
But, why???
Here it is...

One day, I saw a lady cried in the middle of subway station's path. I didn't know why she was crying and yelling like crazy. Her baby was put in front of her. Luckily, I brought my lovely camera. For a sec, I was tempted to shoot at her face and got this amazing emotionally expression. Then, I paused. Help and asked her ? or shoot and leave then pretend that I never seen that scene?
If I help and asked her, I'd miss the opportunity to shoot a great angle and expression, and my friends would never able to see my photo. How if i shoot at her? My friend would see my photo and,perhaps, they'd like it. But, I'd be suffering because I kind of abandoned her and her babies.

Yesterday, I was terribly tired. I woke up really early (the nite before, I had slept so late) and I had to take my passport at Exit and Entry office. Way back home, in subway, there was an old lady who seems so weak. I was really sleepy and I could find a seat! Hell yeah, in Shanghai, seats are like GOLD! Everyone wants it! I didn't want to share my seat with that old lady. But, in other side, I felt guilty. Then I was thinking, why I have to feel guilty? Everyone doesn't care bout it, at all. It's a common thing here. There is no rule says you have to share seat with old lady. If I did stand and let her to sit, I'd be stand up for about 1 hour in subway. If I just pretended and did the same things as people surround me, the old lady,maybe, would fall down, or something bad would happen. And I don't want those kind of things happen because of ME. My self-centered ego. No offense!

These days two of my friends talked to me about their future life. What they want to be in future. What job they will do. What problems and risks they will face, and stuff. A lot of choices are in front of em. The thing is, they don't know what to do with that choices. One of my friend wants to be a movie director.. He is afraid that he will fail, he'll get lot of pressures from family and worse, he can't afford his life and his family. In the other side, his family try to provoke him to be a businessman. The reason is...safer than being an artist. He said, If he choose to be an artist, he will live poor life till he'll success. His family will suffer, he can't give good things to his child, but he like it! He'll love his job.What if he choose to be a businessman? He follow what his parent say, he'll live in good economic condition, no pressure, but he doesn't like it much. The consequence is not just at him, it'll be his family.

Choice and consequence are together.
What do you choose will lead to to another way.
It'll change your life forever.
It isn't just you, still, there are people around you to be cared.
What life do you want to live ??
You choose....

Label: important

how is the feeling to be rejected?
your phone call is rejected by someone you hope to pick it up
your love is rejected by the one you love
your story is rejected by someone who can't hear you
your life is rejected because they don't really know
you are rejected by people around you
you are rejected from university that u really want

rejected!

depressed, stress out, offensive, paranoid, hate, ............

i know it is really damn sucks to be rejected.
everyone expects to be accepted.
but, what can u expect from people around you?
i wish i never expect from people around me.
You will get things that you don't expect.
Because this is life.
Life is unexpected.
Our life is too wonderful to be expected.
There are miracles everyday, even just little.
Accepted or rejected.
It depends on us, how we handle and face it....
Because this is our life...not others.
We are the one who have control.

Label: days, exam, important, people, random me